Intimacy & Boundaries

Learn about Intimacy & Boundaries 1

WRAL Interviews Dr. Kaye

Watch WRAL TV interview Dr. Kaye about Marriage First Aid 2

Relationship Truths

Learn the relationship truths mama never taught you! 3

Love Odyssey Marriage Retreats

Learn about Love Odyssey - Dr. Kaye's nautical retreat that saves marriages. 4

Why We Get So Stupid

Why We Get So Stupid When We Fight 5

Marriage counseling and couples counseling have been specialties of Cary Counseling Center for Raleigh, Cary, Apex, Morrisville and Holly Springs for nearly 30 years.  In addition, our therapists are also exceptionally trained for individual psychotherapy, treatment of PTSD, family counseling and play therapy for children. 


As seen on WRAL-TV in Raleigh:


Watch more relationship videos by Dr. Kaye on his marriage retreat website

You can learn a lot even before coming to counseling.  If you read the following three chapters you will see how our neuroscience-based counseling is a better approach:

Balance and Paradox

Nurturing Healthy Attachment

Defending Autonomy


Check your relationship for common problem syndromes


Use these diagnostic tools before your marriage retreat

Our therapists emphasize goal-focused strategic counseling.  It’s NOT the passive “listening” therapy that takes years to produce results.  Our strategic marriage counseling has several characteristics that make it especially effective:


Careful Assessment – The strategy for marriage counseling is tailored to each couple.  One size doesn’t fit all.  Social history, old traumas, schemas, behavioral patterns, level of dissociation, inhibition of meta-motivational states and parental templates are all assessed to find out where to focus the counseling.  Marriage counseling that focuses on communication is really only dealing with surface issues.  Communication breaks down because  of subtle emotions in the unconscious.  When those emotions are better managed, communication opens up because the person can think differently.  Even subtle emotions can change how the brain operates.   It’s important to determine which emotions are sabotaging communication so that they can be reconditioned.


Clear Goals – Goals are negotiated at the beginning so that all parties can agree on what’s realistic and what’s not.  Progress toward the goals is reviewed regularly so that everyone can be held accountable to stay on task.


Love Odyssey marriage counseling retreats

Active Intervention – The therapist teaches, confronts, models, challenges clients to practice different behavior both in and between sessions.  The emphasis is on training each partner to practice the behavior and thoughts that will change emotions over time. Our most intensive interventions are week long nautical marriage retreats with marriage counseling by Dr. Bryce Kaye and his wife Helen.  These couples counseling retreats are totally private and involve only one couple at a time sailing to different port towns on the rivers and sounds of North Carolina.    Read more about these Love Odyssey marriage counseling retreats.

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